Wednesday 20 December 2006

on certain proclivities...


A little bit on sexual proclivities, as we all know that the proverbial rule-of-thumb saying that goes "sex always sells", no matter where you are. Well as a healthy virile young man, all those sordid fantasies still remains in my head 90 times a day? But still i don't believe there's anything bad with it, unless of course, we cross the lines with our morals and actions. But i still reckon that such sexual endurances and pervasion does bring us a certain kind of energy that we sort of make use of in our daily lives. On that note perhaps, i think if we are able to clearly define lust, only then should we pronounce love. While some's trying to make sense of that, perhaps let's just say we cannot simply use love as an excuse for lust. As many would have already known, many modern relationships these days fail simply because there wasn't a foundation of friendship to begin with. Many have began with lust, as a metaphor for love. For the other partner, if we are able to furnish ourselves with lust for lust, and love for love, i still think less hearts will be broken, if they knew on what note they begin form, and not to confuse the latter for the former. So as one could always try, is simply identifying love and lust to be two separate entities, as i think it helps us form better relationships as a whole, whether it's simply desire for a member of the opposite sex, or actually getting down to loving someone better. I feel we can improve ourselves and our bearings towards others. But sure, if one can find love through lust, then of course, there's no one but only yourself to stop you.

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